Day60 I was up as five and I feel good, I think I slept about five and a half hours, that's all my mind requires I think, if I sleep more or less I just don't feel as good as I do now. I spend a lot of time on this computer; it seems I get my fill of friendship here. It has taken me a while to get used to the weekends, I guess people either get busy on the weekends or they use their computers at work during the week to send messages, either way I don't get near as much mail on the weekends, it used to really effect the way I felt, but I'm getting used to it, even now that I'm doing so well and feel so good about where my life is I feel that I need the friendship and approval of others to keep me on track, it seems friendship and approval can be one in the same. I believe a big part of friendship is to let the people in your life know when they are doing the right thing, help build their self confidence and self esteem, I look forward to having this type of friendship in my life every day, not just hi how you doing, but really checking in to the lives of the people that are important to you. Another big part of friendship I believe is the awkward part, which I believe to be the most important part, and that's when you care enough about someone to step in and let them know there not living right, they usually know they're not living right but when someone says something it does make a difference in their lives, I believe these are the two most important things about friendship and I think everyone should try to practice both of these actions everyday in the lives of the people they care about.
I guess I really needed a day off, it feels so good to do nothing, I feel very sore all over, I guess when you stop moving for a day your body lets you know when you need to slow down, I've got some good help now but I'm so used to doing things by myself it's hard to get used to, I'm going to have to start taking advantage of the help I have more so I don't wear myself out so much. John jr got in today from sd and I'm very happy to see him, we've got a lot to catch up on, I think it's going to be a lot of fun working with him, I'm looking forward to a busy day tomorrow, I'm going to post some more pictures tomorrow, I've got a new camera now that I can download straight to my computer, it will take a little learning but I don't think I will have a problem with it.
I would like everyone to know that Cynthia is posting everyday for the most part and I think she is doing a really good job, I am so happy for her and I know it's going to change her life as it has changed mine, if anyone has the time please go to thisismylifefortoday.blogspot.com and let her know your there, you could be the one to make the difference in her life, until tomorrow, James
Hi Jim, Even though you're doing fantastically well, it's still fun to read your blogs, and it makes me happy that everything is going so well for you. You are only a few years older than our Jimmy would be, and when I met you, you reminded me of him a lot.......not in looks, but in personality....and that is a compliment, as he was a sweet guy with a great personality, and a kind heart. I'm so glad that you're getting a day off......everybody needs that!
ReplyDeleteI keep watching for a new blog from Cynthia, but I haven't seen one since Friday (TGIF.) I do plan to keep in touch with Cynthia and be there for her too. Hope you've had a great day today, Jim!
Jim, think about finding a church to go to on Sunday. Sometimes Church is a quiet place to listen to God's word and contemplate and reflect on the week. It gives my week focus. Sometimes you have to try many different churches until you find one that gives you comfort. It is one hour out of the week. something to think about and do on Sunday...doesn't cost anything but your time.
ReplyDeleteI know what you mean about online friendship. I live for comments on my You Tube videos. I have a handful of friends that comment rather regularly. I've never met them face to face, but I miss it when I don't hear from them in a while. I also get comments from people who just stumble onto one of my videos, and those can sometimes be the most encouraging of all. There's nothing like knowing you been a blessing to someone. By the way, Jim, you've been a blessing to me!
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James, sorry it's been so long since I have posted anything, however, I have kept up with all your days, your new job and your new life. You have been and continue to be a blessing to me, and my wife has even been reading your blogs and tells me how proud she is of you. I am not sure how to see the pictures you have taken, but I would love to see the results of your hard work. I am trying to live up to a standard that you have set for me....in my mind...I know that I can do it too, it's just hard to convince myself of it everyday. I know with prayer, friends and family, my dream will come true....my dream to be completely sober and be the person that I was a long time ago. Keep looking up my friend. God Bless You Man
ReplyDeleteJimmy, keep in mind that even if your friends do not write everyday, you are always in our thoughts and hearts. Like others, I read your blog everyday, no matter what. It's become part of my day, you have become part of my day! I love you and think of you every day. Karin
ReplyDeleteDefinitely delegate. Take days off to heal and relax and reflect. Part of learning how to live is learning how slow down enough to enjoy your life. Love you man. ~d
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